[He shifts angrily.] It's not just about being able to have sex. I mean, it is about that, but it's more what the bands symbolise. The fact that they - make the whole thing so formal. The fact that they make people have to choose, when they should be able to - to just do what they want!
[Except that's what Ianto's done and yeah, if he admits it to himself, he's upset about more than just not being able to fuck his boyfriend.]