Frustrating is a good way of putting it. [ as for the offense: none taken. she understands (and respects) where chuck is coming from, even if she can't share that view for herself. ]
My planet was destroyed four years ago. It's gone. Where Alderaan once was, there's nothing but debris masquerading as an asteroid field. The survivors of my world are displaced and looking to me for the leadership and guidance that my parents once provided them with. They've already lost their homes, their families... I won't let them lose me.