...Maybe I'm not someone who should give advice on this but I'd like to think I know something about being hung up on a guy. I kissed Ned when I was eight and then I spent the rest of my life being in love with him even though we didn't even see each other for twenty years. I didn't realise how stupid that was until I'd been here awhile.
Ned was a perfectly nice guy. Sweet, shy... always wanting to do the right thing, even if he was too nervous to actually do it. He wasn't bad but everything always had to be on his terms and that's bullshit. You shouldn't let some guy dictate your life. He doesn't have the right to tell you how to be happy, whether he does it himself or you do it for him.