[Just searching for answers to questions she can't bring herself to ask. But in this moment she realizes her question isn't "is there something between you and Leia." It's, "is there something between us?" It's the only one that really matters. She can't tell if he ever misses her or if not being able to tell is her sign that he doesn't and she just doesn't want to accept it.]
I solved his mystery of why swinging as it relates to dancing isn't violent.