[ Just him, then. That's okay. Also, this feels like a conversation he's not fully equipped to handle. Sure, he knows a lot about father issues but then the fanboy comes in the way just like how he can make a tasteless Alderaan pun as long as it's not anywhere near her. Some things that felt okay or fun are now anything but. Darth Vader looks cool as hell but how do you tell that to his actual daughter when she hates his guts? ]
Parents are hard... especially when they haven't been around. [ Yeah, that's an understatement. ] Doesn't matter what they do, you can't just get over betrayal like that.
I'm not saying I understand what you've been through, but I think I have an idea at least.