Well... there's nothing you can do right now, at any rate. [Not here.]
But Aidan, if - no, when you go home? Just promise me you'll think it out. All good plans need planning. If I could, I'd help you. I really like you and I can't be the only person who'd offer. Just remember not to do something on feelings. You need to do it on facts. To approach it... with an awareness that can't come from emotion.
It sounds colder, but when you get there... you realize that enduring pays off.