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[ she gets it, though. she really does. ] I know it feels as though your world is ending, but it doesn't have to. Reid will always hold a part of you. That won't change. You could let it weigh you down, that part of Reid that you have in turn. But I don't think you'll be happy if you do.
[ from what she's seen, kitty is a fighter. letting this best her wouldn't make her happy in the long run. when and if reid decides he's capable of taking on a relationship with kitty again, she can at least take comfort in knowing that she is a whole person with or without someone else. she is strong and capable; she'll make it through.
it may seem impossible now, and deanna knows what feeling so well, but it isn't. not entirely and not unless kitty lets it be. ]