[Yes, Tony is so on board with not talking about Cap. There's more to why he likes Barnes than that connection, and anyway that topic? Entirely too likely to be a mood-killer.]
The military could do with more fun and less 'yes Sir!, Drill Sergeant!' if you ask me. Rhodey's always wound up, like unbuttoning his top button will cause a catastrophic nuclear war or something. Too bad for him I love a challenge.
[He takes a lingering sip of scotch] I'm almost disappointed you already know how to loosen up.