I wouldn't say that I'm bothered. [Perpetually cranky on the other hand...] When I was human, dances were something done around a fire usually in celebration of something. The entire tribe went and if you were moved to dance with someone, you did so. There was no such thing as a 'date' or 'asking'.
[Could it be that he's trying to understand human culture from a different point of view than he's accustomed to?]