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[He considers this for a good long moment but then comes to one simple conclusion.]
I think you should still go for it. You have feelings for him and he for you. Not trying at all? Giving up on this because you might lose it?
Shit. You may as well give up on having any relationships at all if that's what you're afraid of.
I tried that too. It isn't easy at all. It's hard and often miserable but I thought I would be better for it if I just didn't get attached to anyone. And well...
[It didn't last. He's not suggesting Dirk go that route, he wouldn't want anyone to be that lonely and miserable. But if that would be something that could make him happier? Maybe it could work for someone else. Helix just knew it wasn't for him, or most people for that matter.]
It's no different than going back to your world knowing you could die or lose that game. You still have to try don't you?