It depends. I think it's possible to do that and yet not want to fight. To hate fighting. [The word is unfamiliar, but she figures it out.] I do hate fighting. At best it should only be done if the situation is that bad...but I think people are too quick to say there is no other choice.
[ooc: I looked it up and the word was coined in the early 1900s, so I think she wouldn't know it, but understand from the adjective "pacific," which is older according to the Internet.]