Well, you were the one to say fairies aren't innocent, but you, a fairy, are. [If that's not painting oneself as the family's black (or white, in this case) sheep, he doesn't know what is.]
Or are we, by chance, talking about different "families"? [After all, he would never say "an Oberon's Children thing" as if he wasn't connected to them. Changelings aren't unheard of when fairies are involved, so it's not a huge leap to make.]