I figured that part out on my own, thank you. [At least the compulsion part. And that's annoying on many levels. The not going home part though, the being stuck part, well that's harder to grasp.
For a thousand years, she's mostly been on the run. She's never really been able to make a place into a home. Let alone learn how to take care of one instead of just compel people to do it for her.]
It's just the rest of it that I have to figure out. It shouldn't be too difficult.