[She smiles at that, just because.] If you're not feeling it, stop. If she's not, stop. I mean, you guys are in sync with one another and its about having a good time together. You don't have to get to the finish line the first time, remember that.
Took me two tries. Two separate tries-- on separate people before I got the hang of it. [More of that delicious TMI you mentally scratch out.] It's too bad you wouldn't dig a tongue ring. They're helpful.