Alright, alright... [Admirable, so she nods for a second and chews her lip thoughtfully.]
Something that might help set the mood and ease your anxiety would be to shower together first. Soap each other up, keep it steamy all the way into the bedroom. Squeaky clean, hot and bothered, you could work it from there. [It's a suggestion?
Also sorry, but INCOMING:] Have you fingered her before?