[John | Spike]
Oh! Yeah..that makes a hell of a lot more sense.
Far as the concerns go, who gives a toss? I mean, if you ask and she agrees then you're solid. And if you ask and she declines; then there's no harm and no foul. Plus you'd still have wine to drink to numb the sting of rejection.
Still getting used to it myself, but it's nice to be sure.