Wordless gestures were always more helpful than stupid comments and condolences or whatever. Unless it was hugs. Then Rosa would prefer hearing how sorry everyone was.
"I don't need you to distract me. It sucks. It happened. It's fine." She didn't need the pity either. Rosa was intent on just dealing with things on her own. That was how she always handled things. It kept anyone from seeing her weak or unsure or anything. There was only one thing people should see when they looked at her and that was a badass who didn't need anyone.