It is rather nice to have my Brother and my sister here. Delirium is a breath of fresh air to this place. It makes for a rather delightful time.
That said, I've decided that it is time for an Ask Death.
How many more times am I going to die?
Sorry I can't tell you the answer to that. That's overreaching on my part.Is there any way to get back the full range of my taste buds?
Sure, give me ten minutes. I can do that for you..My sisters and I let this happen in our family after our father died. We fought about stuff, and it tore our family apart.
— Regretful
Dear Regretful,
As someone who sees people die all the time, "stuff" means an awful lot to people. Emotional attachment, memories, reminders of the person are all attached to "stuff". The only way to really fix this is reach out to make amends and apologize for arguing over "stuff". If you didn't take the attachment to the stuff seriously, apologize for it even if youaren't attached to "stuff". It clearly means something to your other family members and if you want to rebuild a relationship that's where you should start. Wanting or needing physical reminders of loved ones really does no harm, unless you are physically assaulting each other over it or obsessing over it to the point when you can't manage day to day things.