"It is like courtship, yes. If done right. Getting to know one another, first, and learning how compatible we are past the physical. Then seeing if we mesh further. Normally, I have has sex with people right away, often. But... that was when no romantic relationship was being thought of, at least by me. For more... I want to do it right." He nodded.
He was trying, anyway. Gods knew how long he would last.
"Magic can cause sleep, yes." He hugged her comfortably, smiling.