Re: Bobby
I was with a girl and we were moving slowly toward getting seriously serious. Like, she said she wanted a relationship, but wanted to move slowly. Only, turns out she actually hated moving slowly, and just said it because she didn't really want to be in one with me.
She broke up with me and got together with a guy who she had just met, and went from met to full togetherness with him in a day.
I don't know thus Lydia, but she might just be worried about the idea of rebound. And she might think this is like... more of a romantic thing than it is?
I like being with you as a friend who I also have sex with. I don't see anything wrong with that either.