J'onn nodded. "It's hard to adjust to those things, I'm sure.I think the most important part is to breathe and do things you would have done before the dome messed with you. And if it is meant to be, it will become more obvious, I think."
He nodded.
"I had a family, on Mars, long ago. They were murdered, killed before my eyes, and for a long time, despite their deaths being an increasingly long time ago, I could not let go, could not allow myself to push the memories away. My people only forget things if we choose to do so. Memories only fade, even a little, if we let them, and I had not let the memory of their deaths fade."
he waved a hand.
"Now, I am slowly learning to do so, not to forget them, but to let myself live, here and now, instead of in the past."