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None of us do really. We all learn to cope with it. It's the most we can hope for. Some of us learn to move on and make a life here. That takes a little bit of time.
When are humans not dangerous? Or really any free-thinking being? The point is no one is going to run around with weapons to attack anyone else. Weird shit happens here at times but that's it. You'll find that most of the people here are pretty harmless.