It works out that way now. Women have the same rights as men, so we don't have to stick around and let ourselves be abused, thank God.
Why isn't he showing much concern? It's not offensive to desire someone, or to accept. I don't, but I'm not interested. Believing having sex is offensive isn't true. Why would it be? It's a mutually enjoyable activity people engage in for a number of reasons. Some more than others. It has no bearing on a person's worth, any more than deciding to play chess with someone or a lot of someones does.
Birth control's fairly ubiquitous, yeah. You can get it for free. I have an IUD - an intrauterine device. Keeps me from having kids until I get it taken out and as a plus I don't menstruate, which saves me that headache out on the field. And yeah, that's what they thought when they invented it too and in less than twenty years pretty much all the women were on it. Turns out we like choices. Go figure.