Well, yes, of course I agree that people should marry for love, in an ideal situation. I know that it doesn't always work out that way, but I would never want to marry a man I didn't at least have a deep and abiding affection for.
That has very little to do with people being intimate before marriage though, does it? I'm pleased that a woman is valued for her character in this time, of course I am, but a man convincing her to lie with him before they're married isn't showing much concern for her character or competency, is he?
I'm trying to understand, it's just - and birth control? Is that why there are so many women here who haven't ever had children? No respectable woman would think of purchasing anything like that, where I'm from.