It might be great for you, because you're all girly. I'm not, and the only way I'd end up in such a position myself is through force. If being a wife makes you happy, I don't get it, but whatever. And I can shoot zombies. People tend to frown on shooting family before they're already dead.
But a lot of it doesn't work. I don't know, I've only read about alchemy in books.
I didn't mean bad cheating. Just that we're using knowledge people have no way of getting. I'm also cheating.