You annoy me, I don't dislike you. They're separate things, and you have to do a lot more than annoy me to be worth me disliking you.
We've spoken on occasion; hell, we spoke earlier today, when I said I thought todash was a good word. It might be true that we see what we want to see, but so do you. Like telling Elodin 'you and your allies'. We're not holding meetings to discuss 'how and why to make Cuthbert and Roland's lives miserable'.
I'd ask, but you don't accept any questions. All you would want to say of Gilead is to tell so we can all agree with you that it's amazing, and my brain doesn't work that way. I pick things apart. I'm just as hard on my own society as I am Gilead: We're narcissistic, have no priorities, our democracy is failing and ineffective, and we've traded our freedom for security.
If the only action you can come up with is starting a militia, then yes. Cuthbert's festival idea is a good one.
And also, I asked what everyone thought of your idea. The majority here disagreed with it. That was the point.