Doesn't matter, and you don't actually want to know, and you'll forget in 2 minutes anyway, so I'll treat the question as rhetorical.
See, there's no way we could know you had a thing about kids. You can't expect everybody to just know that stuff.
That's why we're open about Shaun being nuts and my being broken: Not that it's anybody else's problem, but it explains a lot about us. Can't expect people to react/consider things they don't know about. We haven't invented mind reading yet.