At least, our daughter has other kids to hang out with...hopefully. Are they around the same age?
But yeah, this place is definitely fucked. I don't think these future kids ever get easier to deal with or at least, it hasn't for me. Though thankfully, I don't ever end up with as many as some do.
I have one with my boyfriend, and another with my best friend. Hopefully, those are the only two besides ours. I think three is a manageable number. You two are welcomed to come over here. Or we can grab lunch whenever you two want.