Wei Wuxian. We do not shorten our names where I am from. Or just Wuxian. Wei doesn't sound right and never will.
As long as you're not throwing it around it shouldn't break but I understand that.
Where I'm from zhiji is soulmate. When I mention my zhiji then I'm talking about my husband who is also here. And didi is little brother. As for the horses, it is fun. I play my dizi, my flute, for them sometimes. They like the sound of it.