Well if she cares so much, why is she friends with you? I wouldn't be friends with someone who didn't like the people I love. I choose the people I love.
She might not be my enemy, but she's not my friend. I don't even know her. I've talked to you more than I've talked to her and Frank never talked to me about her. So why does she care all of a sudden now? That's not being a friend either.