On thing - We need a year on the Age Statement post, but in people's profiles, we only need an age statement, period. So if people don't want to put their complete birthday on their profile, all they need to do is say "I am over 18" or some other statement to indicate their age. Unless someone is exactly 18 the year they request to join, we only need a year from someone in the age statement post.
Also, could you post this at LJ, too? Thanks! *HUGS* You're spiffy!