"I'm positive, Susan." See? Lois used actual names in serious situations. "Look, I'm not going anywhere, not when it counts. I like to think I'm pretty loyal to the people that matter and you're on that list. So just.. breathe. As for the girls at the academy, all I can say is keep trying. Once they realize you're not like your brothers, things will fall into place. Start with one of the more influential girls of the school. Once you have her trust, the others will likely fall in line."