"Just glad I could help. I was possessed by a hyena once and I ate a pig and nearly did something I would regret with Buffy. Thankfully she hit me with a desk before I could do anything I'd regret. The others that were possessed killed the principal of our school so I was glad to not be part of that after turning back to normal," Xander said remembering the early days of the Scoobies. "I know its galaxies apart, I was just running on animal instinct and you had a Hellgod controlling you. But I get it. Forgiveness is important."
As was the need for closure, something Xander understood all to well.
"I know if he could find a way to tell you, your Xander would forgive you too. I hope he would anyway. It's what us Xanders do. That and the sad puppy dog eyes," he said giving her the sad puppy face to lighten the moment. "Also random and useless pop culture knowledge from not having a life. But then, that's probably just me."