The view of the people is the view of dog (dickens) wrote in lgbtq,
"qpoc characters engage in queer spaces in ways that i don't recognize in rp"
I think a lot of this is because we don't know how they would react? I've started reading a book at the moment that talks about it and its eye opening. It's the sort of thing we all (unless you are qpoc of course) need to learn about.
High standards are great! Everyone needs to be held to them because as it's been said it needs to be done respectfully and that's where a lot of people fall down.