NO NO NO immortal birthdays NEVER ARE MONOTONOUS WHAT ARE YOU SAYING?
My children, my darling they make a fuss for me every year in November. That's how I've never forgotten it. It's WONDERFUL and they bring me beautiful things from all around the world and my grandchildren, sometimes they show up as well and it's a happy day!
It's not complicated. You just need to be loved. You do whatever you want!