I know the pains of your lost and missing friends, in the worry of your mortal forms. I have offered my sword and shield in the aid of the return of your fallen, and yet you know not where there are nor do you have any solution as to how they might be returned to you, and yet you seek to preach to me that I am in the wrong? Attempting to aid those in a bit of relief from the ails and hardships of battle?
Your own people have spoken that they do not believe these invaders will do any harm to those that have been taken, that this is a ploy to make you weak based on your emotions and that it might convince these Guardians to turn themselves over. You are giving them the exact kind of response they have sought to provoke.
You have much to learn about battle and war.
You may let me know if I may help when you have answers.