Dick
I'm sorry all of that happened to you guys. None of us are perfect, and we do make mistakes, but learning from the ones you made proves the type of person you are.
Yeah, I'd say, and this sounds like something that should be dealt with between you family. If I locate him, and it seems like that, then I'll contact you, but if you guys need anything, just ask, and I'll be happy to help where it's needed.