Perhaps it wasn't really right to judge his training, or lack of it, against others but she had no other way of testing it. She'd done similar with her other companions, all in their own way. Well except Mandalore. She knew how Mandalorians felt about the Force, so she'd kept that way. He'd earned that right, at least. "Not exactly. Attuning yourself means letting something be a part of you. With crystals, you meditate, allow the force to flow through both you and the crystal." It was hard to put into words, exactly. She'd always just done, and thought of it as normal. "This crystal feels like me. It, in some way, knows me. It will never work for anyone else because of it." She sighed. "It is better to show then to explain."
She smiled. "It isn't hard. Focus on the 'saber, let your mind drift, feel the Force." She set the tools in between them and started putting her own blade back together. She nodded as he began the tale. Curious that a Knight had had a son, but not impossible. Revan had a family of his own that she'd heard of, clearly it wasn't impossible so perhaps the Order had realized that families were a strength, rather then a weakness.