My system does not boil down to "other people poke me". Also, the last time I posted was August 31st, so I don't actually post a lot. I did have several posts at the outset, which was a mistake, and I also attempted to tag around a great deal and got in over my head. Since our last HMD, my activity level has dropped, in part because the implications I was getting from the people who commented made me so uncomfortable that I was afraid to do too much more.
I didn't ask for a babysitter or a policeman or someone sitting behind me telling me to tag this, then this, then this. A month ago, as well as now, I asked if people could give me a hand. Asking if, once in a while, if I'm being slow or whatever, bring it to my attention. Instead of just coming to me at the HMD, anonymously, telling me "you don't tag me". Because then I can't do anything about it. My request is not wholly unreasonable, it's not my entire plan, and I'm getting really tired of people assuming that I want or expect someone to be my RP mother.