To be clear: I am not expecting anyone to "police" my playing. I don't want someone breathing down my neck, and no one wants that job.
What I am asking for is follow-up and communication outside of HMD-time. Kamui has a contact entry on his journal, and I have plurk. I have used the past plotting posts to make myself available. Clearly, though, I have an issue -- which I was upfront with last month -- and I am asking for you to meet me half way. An anonymous person telling me "you don't tag me" doesn't even give me anywhere to start, unless you would like me to dig through the last four months of tags and then hope for the best. That isn't fair, either.
And I'm not shrugging anything off. But yes, when lately I'm lucky if I can find the motivation to get out of bed in the morning, I'm going to tag the closest available thread if I tag anything at all.