This is something I really don't like about the anonymous nature of the HMD because to be honest, anon, I have no clue who you are. I don't know if you are on my plurk timeline, where I've been very open about having to be selective or slow for one reason or another. On my plurk, after the last HMD, I also put out a plea to have people contact me if I've been sitting on a tag for too long. It's no one's place to actively baby-sit my activity, but it doesn't hurt to drop me a line every now and then.