[Rolls his eyes and gestures at him distractedly.] Your manner of talking suggests dom, but that, of course, is rubbish; your body language practically screams submissive. Obviously a facade that helps you feel more in control when approaching strangers.
[He goes on, kind of unable to stop now that he's started.] You challenge individuals because you find the game amusing, but it's also your way of identifying sexual partners. You prefer people, mostly women... I dare say a woman, who can hold their own against you and indeed take the lead. Obviously, it seems she has yet to return your feelings or is for whatever reason rejecting them for the present.
[Pauses and then adds.] A word of advice, from one sub to another, forget the romance. It hasn't served you well in the past, as your lack of appendage indicates. Find yourself a willing partner and release your sexual needs that way.