I know, alright? [J- just his issues, shush.] [Shakes his head] Look, it's not about me.
[Pulls his hand away from the back of his neck, but just so he can tap his forehead lightly with his finger] It's about you. I'm not going to tell you not to cry, just...
[... he feels useless and awkward and he wants to be able to comfort you and he just can't because he's the reason you're sad.]