[If it makes you feel better about any mistakes you might make as an ESL roleplayer, I absolutely did not have to google the word "apophasis" before writing this tag in my native language. And if I had, that sentence would have been a halfway decent example of it so ha.]
Isn't it natural to be concerned for my beloved husband? [Wow, holding hands, such PDA. Shield your eyes, children. It's not really her thing either but it's all for the irony. Or it was at one point in their marriage.] I know how self-conscious you can be, after all.