I don't know that I can be comfortable. This whole situation is strange, and it would be even without the time issues meddling in! I'm fairly sure getting all fluttery over a qunari is banned somewhere in Tevinter laws.
Not that I care what they say, but it's a hard habit to break. [As you said. Despite his aggressively going against anything Tevinter does, he can't help the 'this is not okay' feeling from being raised in that culture anyway.]