No. It applies regardless of if I'm calm or not. This isn't a negotiation. I'm-- [no, she's not calm. This has been happening all weekend and every time it happens she feels she's closer and closer to losing control.]
I won't allow anything to happen. [He won't hurt her, she knows that. She won't allow herself to hurt him. And right now the only way she knows how to do that is to be brusque.]