[Here's someone else who'll come visiting with you once she learns of the situation... and, yeah, she's been there.] [Approaches her quietly and reaches out, taking her hand and squeezing gently]
Oh, Anne. [She's so sorry, and she knows there's nothing she can say that will help, either. But at least maybe there's that reassurance that she knows what you're going through and isn't going to ask too many questions?]