[Sorry Elsa, she's had to deal with Fay for years now (or at least her other self did)]
I once knew someone... he was kind to everyone but himself, and believed that he wasn't worth kindness in turn. Those are the kind of people that deserve sympathy the most.
I hope that maybe someday, you'll be able to see what others see, that those who care for you don't do so because of a burden, but because you are important.