I'm saying you let your prejudice cloud your judgement, Porthos. [She sighs, toying with her curls.]
You forget I am familiar with your... circumstances- or perhaps I should say, the circumstances of your friend, Athos. I understand why you would look at me and wonder whether I am like his once-wife. Your concern does you credit, my friend, but I've told you once and I tell you again: I would not hurt Aramis like she hurt Athos, nor would I allow anyone to hurt him, either. And if you cannot see that... then no, you do not "get it". [Yes, she actually does those air quotations.]