percy | harry.
You're both young, and suffering can't be quantified in that way. No one's suffering is greater than someone else's. Especially when it has been derived from the same situation. It's less likely to be a burden and more than likely to be a relief to be able to share.
It will be up to you how much you want to remember, how far you want to delve. Sometimes accepting the memory gap is just as beneficial as recalling the missing pieces. I can see if there's someone in town qualified to treat it.
A little too common, really. We only get better at making them more efficient.